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DEAR PAM: I enjoyed your last column, 6 Tips to Avoid Rude Restaurant Behavior. In the article you mentioned letting the server know upfront if you will be splitting the bill. My question is, what if you donÃÛÁÄÖ±²¥™t drink and you are splitting the bill with a ÃÛÁÄÖ±²¥œhardyÃÛÁÄÖ±²¥ drinker? ÃÛÁÄÖ±²¥” Signed, A Split Decision

DEAR SPLIT: If you know you will be dining with an indulgent drinker and you drink very little or not at all, then it would be best to ask for separate checks (upfront) and avoid splitting the bill. This way you can sidestep the uncomfortable situation of trying to calculate drinks versus food during the split.

Pam Harvit is a certified international corporate protocol and etiquette consultant and speaks nationally on business and medical etiquette, as well as other related topics. You may request her services or email your questions to .

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